Activities to do with your Loved one who has Dementia

Many family members and friends of people who are battling the disease of dementia will tell you that knowing what to do in their time together is a great challenge. During our last “Journey of Hope” meeting, we discussed the importance of having a “bridge” between you and your loved one, with that bridge being the connecting piece above the tumultuous waters that represent dementia. Below you will find a list of activities that can serve as a “bridge” during your time together.

Activity Ideas to do with my Loved One

  •       Look at old albums together
  •  Clip coupons together
  •   Read out loud (If possible, take turns)
  •   Bake cookies
  •    Cook something that involves peeling, cutting, sifting. A fruit salad is a good example.
  •   Look up names in the phone book together. “Do you remember that Alice Anderson from church? Let’s see if she is still listed in the phone book.”
  •     Bring a child to visit
  • Toss a ball
  • Color large print pictures
  • Fold Clothes together
  •    Bring a pet to visit
  • Cut pictures out of greeting cards together
  •  Sort objects by shape and color. Example: A deck of cards can be sorted by suit, colors, numbers.
  •  Bake homemade bread
  •   When your loved one is talking about something, use the phrase “Tell me more”, even if it what they are saying doesn’t make sense.
  •   Go for a car ride
  •   Discuss great inventions like the telephone, electricity, washing machine, etc.
  •  Play Pictionary
  • Identify states and and capitals
  •  Dance together
  • Sing favorite hymns and songs together
  •   Make homemade Ice cream
  •    Paint her nails
  •   Give a hand massage with lotion
  •   Finishing nursery Rhymes and old sayings together
  •   Cut out pictures with a theme in mind ( dogs, cats, babies, flowers, etc) , paste on a piece of paper and place in a 4 ring binder.
  •  Roll yarn into a ball
  • Listen to music together, and reminisce about the artist, style. Ask your loved one what the song makes them think of, how it makes them feel, etc.
  •   Put a puzzle together
  • Decorate cupcakes or cookies together
  •   Dip pretzels in almond bark and shake sprinkles on them.
  •  Wash windows together
  • Polish silverware together
  •   String fruit loops on yarn
  • Write a letter together to a relative or friend
  • Sand wood together
  •  Bake a cake “just because
  • Cut and paste colorful paper chains together, and hang the finished project in their room
  • Run through the alphabet together, listing off specific words or items that start with that letter.
  •  Play “What’s in the bag?”- Place a variety of different objects in a paper or canvas bag, and have your loved one try to guess what that item is, based on texture and shape.
  • Bring a C.D. or a sound machine with different sounds (ocean, rain, traffic, birds singing, etc) and ask them to identify that sound.

 

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